Just a note for self

Was just reading through a particular acquaintance's blog... something i hadn't done for some time. *Scroll to an old entry... (not sure here or livejournal: abt me and a friend's falling out / J's falling out with a friend)

Anyways, there were issues to do with commitments and priorities for both J's and my case. Not all that similar - there were some differences. So anyhows, i got to reading this acquaintance's entries. The word "priority" was just SUCH a glare on my Laptop screen. Ya... I mean, finally u know how it feels to be on the other side of the coin/relationship? This acquaintance was complaining how he and a friend had put aside time and plans to meet up with another party... only to be stood up by this 3rd person... sounds familiar? All the "see first's" that he has always said to "our" group and all the "how bout next week?" but he never gets back to me about it... It's all the same now...
I hate to say this - what goes around, comes around.
Do unto others wat u want to be done unto you...
It's Kharma!
It WOULD be terribly rude and smug of me to say "I told you SO!" in his face... Here's where my being smug would end. I can totally understand what he feels cuz that's wat he did to me... (seriously, more pittance than smug... I'd never even wish for that on my worse enemy...)

Time for me to be much more positive around pple. Nope, this is not to say i have been bad to pple in my relationships. I just need to be more open, less complacent, more loving, more understanding and less doubtful... (Easy to say... hard to achieve...)